Thursday January 9, 2020 When we experience the consequences of mistakes, we get a clear message about which of our efforts are working–and which are not. The feedback we get from our mistakes can be the most specific, pointed, and powerful feedback we’ll ever get. Many times we can trace mistakes to recurring patterns of belief or behavior–things we do, say, and think over and over again. When we spot and change a habit we may find that other areas of our lives change for the better. One way to gain maximum benefit from mistakes is to examine them through the filter of powerful questions:
“How can I use this experience?”;
“What will I do differently next time?”;
“How will I be different in the future?”
Questions like these lead to an inquiry that invites solutions. Dr Babajide Alalade

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Do not wait for someone to show you what to do, but use vision and let your imagination suggest what to do.

Do not wait for someone to pay you for using your imagination, because your real pay will come from the fact that every time you use it constructively in creating new combinations of ideas, it will grow stronger, and if you keep up this practice, the time will come, very soon, when your services will be sought eagerly, at any price within reason.

Look about you and you will find plenty of opportunities to exercise your imagination.

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“If only……”

One thing is sure, as the day follows the night, as seasons come and go, year on year: “…thus says the Lord, it’s a sure thing that you’ll not finish if you don’t start”

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.”

The hallmark of unfulfilled lives is the beginning of any sentence with this phrase:
“If only….”.

If only I had taken advantage of that opportunity when it came along, and soon on as so forth.

Few years ago, my life almost came to a stand still, yes, literally I had to start all over again.

My watch word then was , “… by the time this all over I would be remembered for what I failed at, and also for the fact that I finally succeeded despite my short comings, yes you read it clearly.

Unfulfilled lives are filled with “if onlys.”

Few weeks ago, a very close and successful friend called me, he said , “how do you do all these despite all you have been through, Jide?”

I said I don’t want to give up , at least not yet !
He smiled over the phone.

Life is filled with many opportunities — for great successes and spectacular failures. It is up to you to seize the initiative, to take advantage of the opportunities that come your way.

Every failure, Every disappointment is full of seeds for another success, in every areas of human endeavour.

You are condemned to a life of mediocrity — unless you get into action. Don’t delay; do it today!

Today is your day, your day of new beginning, everything dead in you is risen to a new life today!

Edited by Dr. Babajide Alalade
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The relationship between giving and getting is constant in everything you do.

Trying to get without first giving is as fruitless as trying to reap without having sown, it’s like stealing.

To succeed in any endeavor, you must first invest a generous portion of your time and talents if you expect ever to earn a return on your investment.

The law is simple, we reap what we sow. The most fertile soil in the world is barren unless seeds have been properly planted, cultivated, and nurtured.

You have to give before you get. It’s all a nmatter of attitude.

At times, you may occasionally be disappointed if you are not rewarded for your efforts, but if you demand payment for your services before you render them, you can expect a lifetime of disappointment and frustration.

If you cheerfully do your best before asking for any compensation, you can expect a bountiful harvest of the greatest rewards life has to offer.

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Protect your mental health with the same care you give your physical body. Just as your body requires healthy, nourishing foods, and a balanced diet, so does your mind.
Most illness begins with a negative mind, it is also possible to make yourself ill through constant worry and fear of failure.
Make sure you feed it plenty of positive thoughts.

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“Failure is a blessing when it pushes us out of a cushioned seat of self-satisfaction and forces us to do something useful” Napoleon Hill; for me it were the moments when I was faced with the possibility of failure that I have searched deeply for the understanding of things and applied the wisdom gained thereof.

When we are willing to deal with radical change and take the appropriate risks that we discover great success.

When we experience temporary failure and you know that it is ONLY temporary, there can we capitalise on the opportunities those seemingly adversity always do bring.

“Crisis is a costly thing to waste” Babajide Alalade

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One of the first steps to move on after a failure, a loss, a mistake, or a life full of mistakes is to acknowledge of our weakness(es).

Thomas Kempis once said that, and he was right. Sometimes this is the hardest thing for people to do.

Yet self-truth and truth with others about where you have fallen short almost ensures that you will go a long way.

Everyone can see you anyway, why not admit what everyone is seeing?

This makes me remember a story about a man in a ditch and some many people were trying to help him get out of the mess, and the only thing he could think of is, “does anyone out there know that I stink?!”

You cannot let go of anything if you cannot notice that you are holding it. Admit your ‘weaknesses’ and watch them morph into your greatest strength

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… that the purpose of relationship may not be what you think.

If you are excited about forming a relationship based on what it looks like you can get, rather than what you can give, you have started off on the wrong foot entirely, and you could be heading for a big disappointment.

The purpose of all relationships is to create a sacred context within which you can express the fullness of who you are.

And who you are is an experience you have before you enter relationship, not because you did.

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